These are my confessions of all the chaotic, crazy, hilarious, events being married to a Marine and a Stay At Home Mommy to three kids entails.

Wednesday, January 12, 2011

Trying to find that spark....

When two people are newly in love, there is this spark between them that could ignite a fire. Kisses and hugs, staying up late just talking about nothing, and laying in bed on rainy days. Then the couple decides to get married and start a family....
Fast forward 10 years and a couple of kids later, the spark has gone missing. The husband and wife are too busy with work, kids, bills, LIFE.....life takes over and steals that spark.
We can't blame life however, it only happens if the husband and wife allow it. My question is, how do you stop it? Or more importantly in my case, how do you get it back??
I love my husband with all my heart. We met when we were 19 and married at 20. He is my soulmate. But our relationship has turned into one of those sterotypical yuppie couples that barely speak!! What happened to my happpily ever after???
I know I am not the only one who feels this way. There are a lot of couples out there that suffer from the same thing. My question is...How do you get it back?
Till next time,
C

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